I am so grateful to have this opportunity to share my knowledge and experience with newly engaged couples and their families. My comments and advice are based on practical experience and common sense. I’ve been in the wedding industry since 1995 and just when I think I've seen and heard it all I find myself saying, “That’s a new one!” I do know for a fact that for every situation there’s always a solution.

 

There’s a beginning and an end to everything including planning a wedding. The most commonly asked question of newly engaged couples and their families is, “Where do I start?”

The best advice I can give to anyone in the world of planning a wedding is to be knowledgeable. Typically the bride that does her research experiences less stressful moments.

Stress is a self-inflicted emotion that can be controlled. There are 3 common stress factors in planning a wedding; the unknown, money and conflicts with family and friends.

Shop around, always ask questions and once you’ve chosen your service providers work out the details and move on. Let them do their job and trust that things will be taken care of.

Set a budget and stick to it. If parents are involved in the financial responsibilities get things worked out before you make any decisions. Be grateful for any and all contributions.

I recommend resolving all uncomfortable situations as soon as possible, choosing not to is an open invitation to stress.

Make lists and set goals. A 3-ring binder works great. The more organized you are the more time you’ll have to enjoy the planning process as well as your wedding day. There’s always 2 or 3 last minute details, try to keep it to a minimum. Your wedding day will be quicker than Christmas and you want to be sure to savor every moment.

Delegate! If you have friends and family that are willing, able and reliable, seize the opportunity to lighten your load. Prepare a delegation list for those times when some one kindly asks, “What can I do to help?”
All the planning and pre-nuptial details are important, necessary embellishments and shouldn’t be taken lightly. However, never loose sight of the most important detail of all, the moment you say “I DO!”

I have so much to share that I’m about to bust at the seams with excitement! I sincerely look forward to keeping in touch with you.